Proverbs 10:19 - The Power of Silence and Self-Control

1. The Power of Silence and Self-Control

• Set Apart V reflects on Proverbs 10:19: "In a multitude of words, there wanteth not sin, but he that refraineth his lips is wise."

• Excessive talking—venting, debating, over-explaining, defending—often leads to sin as it gives more space for fleshly impulses to overpower spiritual self-control.

• Wisdom is shown by restraint; silence is advocated as a protective, wise response rather than weakness.

2. Spiritual and Practical Benefits of Restraint

• Silence serves as self-control and spiritual armor, helping to guard one’s spirit.

• Holding one’s peace can prevent:

• Entering into unwanted spiritual agreements through careless words.

• Saying things that can’t be taken back.

• Sowing negative seeds that will yield unwanted results in the future.

• Sometimes saying nothing is the most powerful, wise action to take.

3. Wisdom in Conversation

• Not all conversations, accusations, or arguments require a response, explanation, or participation.

• Wisdom involves:

• Not wasting words on those unwilling to hear the truth.

• Avoiding unnecessary conflicts or foolish debates.

• Guarding the tongue to keep the heart pure.

• Letting silence and spiritual sensitivity (The Ruach) guide one's speech.